My Story

Hi, I’m Koko — the Purpose Accelerator

and this is my story:

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I've had my share of struggles with people-pleasing, wanting to belong, be seen and heard. I've been awarded, praised and encouraged for my work ethics, how I show up, organization skills and being multi-talented. BUT all of that comes with a cost and sometimes you lose yourself in the process and need a Reset so you can Refocus and Rise God's way. 

 

I found myself in that position in 2012. So tired of stressing myself out trying to be the best Teacher, I literally prayed for God to just start over. Well, I didn't expect to be out of a job for three years - and that was NOT my prayer - but God revealed so much of me to me that was a game changer. Now, I wish I could say everything got much better, but that wasn't quite the case as I found myself in several "situationships" that exposed more of my insecurities and how I was actually contributing to some issues. 

 

One thing about being a leader in any capacity - even if not in name or title - is you have to be sure of who you are as God identifies you and not family, friends, church, or society. It's so easy to get caught up in what we think people want and what they say they want that we lose what God has spoken over our lives. ​

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Taking all of this into consideration, like Moses, I've questioned God's call to creating a ministry focused on men. "Lord, you know my issues, my triggers, my flaws and setbacks. Why?" It's almost like Moses returning to Egypt after killing a man and having to flee. Why am I "returning" to help men who struggle with similar issues of identity and leading from a place of humility and patience. 

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Two words come to mind: GRACE and MERCY!

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I’ve seen and experienced what happens when a man leads from an unhealed place — the silence, the distance, the frustration, the emotional shutdowns, the pressure to hold everything together alone. I’ve lived through the pain those unhealed foundations can cause, not just for the men themselves, but for the people connected to them.

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God didn’t call me to fix men.
He called me to heal the foundation so the fruit of their life can finally change.

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When a man resets his mind, refocuses his heart, and reconnects with God, the transformation is undeniable. He loves differently. He leads differently. He communicates differently. He shows up with humility, clarity, and strength that comes from a restored identity — not perfection. This work is not about perfection; it’s about alignment. It’s about helping men walk in the wholeness God intended so they can be better husbands, fathers, leaders, and servants in every area of their life.

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My mission is to help:

• Heal the foundation

• Strengthen your relationship with God

• Transform relationships

• Empower personal clarity and purpose

• Model authentic growth and resilience

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Because when the foundation heals, everything connected to you — marriage, family, leadership, work, identity, purpose — starts to rise.